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Frozen custard is French ice cream. To be considered “frozen custard” it must contain at least 10 percent milkfat and at least 1.4 percent egg yolk solids. It is a lot richer and smoother than normal ice cream.

…kiddin…

whast frozen custard like? is it an american thing??

As far as the date for “move out” being listed I assumed it was immediate based on everything else listed in the letter. When I went over it with Stacy and Mom they both thought that’s what it implied as well.

By not mentioning the problems you are literally leaving Gary and I clueless. I sat around last night just thinking what it could possibly be. Since I couldn’t think of anything at all because nothing has been mentioned to either of us the only thing that I could think of is you only wanted me in the house long enough for Berry to find a good job let me front all the money then once everything was settled for you two ask me to leave at my earliest convenience. I hope that isn’t what was really happening but because I was never informed of any issues it is the only conclusion I can find.

If everything goes well at the property showings this evening at the two locations I am looking at Depending on which I Choose I will be out the night of the 2nd or the night of the 9th. I will need the check for $1300 for all of the deposits I fronted within the next few days so I can pay for everything.

As far as the two phone lines since it was again $95 this month I’m not sure how we are distributing that charge among the bills. I will give you the rent check for however many days I will be in the residence once I decide on property but if all goes well I will be out by no later than the 10th. I have already found a few people willing to help me pack everything up and move it to whatever my new location may be.

You have been expanding your social circle, and I figured that if there was someone you trusted and felt they were reliable enough to cover the other end of the rent and expenses; that you would like to be given the option of staying. We do not care if you would like to stay, or if you would like to go. We left the decision to you, simply incase you did want to stay. In addition: I contacted the landlord so I would have the information available in regards to what was needed to remove someone from the lease. I took no further steps other then gathering the information before-hand, I am sorry if you view this as a pre-emptive strike at “evicting” you

In addition to the option, the letter I sent you was simply a notice; no decision was intended to be finalized until after the first of the year. I had assumed that you being my best friend would have known that…I apologize for my oversight in not mentioning that.

I did not mention what the problems were, simply because I wanted to avoid as much emotional baggage as possible. I was very really hoping this could be done like the business arrangement it started out as. We were all friends that ventured into something, that half the venture feels isn’t working, I thought we would be able to complete this aspect and remain friends when it was all over. That is the main reason we opted to do this now, and provide more the sufficient time for whoever was moving to locate and arrange a place. There was never an intention of causing hurt feelings, however, given the nature of the event – we knew that some were possible. We accepted the possibility that you two may decide to not continue our friendship after this event is complete. We honestly feel this is needed, and we are both very sorry if you do decide to no longer be our friend because of this.

I will contact the landlord and arrange to have the paperwork drawn up and prepared for our signatures. If you are still willing, we would like to move our two lines over to our own plan still.

I talked it over last night while I was gone to allow myself to absorb what was said in this email to discover my feelings on it. I have responded my thoughts to things addressed in your first email.

“As of late there has been a growing strain in the household. In addition, I feel a growing resentment of all parties is beginning to develop. We do not want to lose you and Gary as friends, however, given the declining status of our friendship over the last several month, we do not think that it is possible for all of us to continue living under the same roof. “– I am not sure what you are referring to with the “growing strain” and “resentment” Gary and I both were unaware of this happening in the household. I do find it ironic however stating, mind you a month before Christmas when the day before this email was sent I explained to you why Christmas is hard for me, that you inform me that someone has to move out. I mean with your and Berry’s constant Christmas cheer I would have figured we could have discussed this and addressed if someone needed to move out after the New Year. But that is a moot point now. Not to mention wanting to have nothing change in the relationship and remaining the best of friends when I am basically being evicted over Christmas.

“There is but one option, one couple in the house must leave if we are to have any hope of saving our friendship. Berry and I enjoy this house and would like to stay; however, we know that you like it as well and would also wish to stay. As such, we will leave the decision of who is to remain in the current house to you. I have spoken with the landlord, and we can remove parties from the lease with a simple form and a signature on the lease. That will remove whoever decides to leave the house from any finical and legal responsibilities with the property.“ – I love that line ‘There is but one option’ when neither Gary nor I knew there was this so called problem in the household. As well as giving me the option to choose who gets to stay in the house, you personally have seen all of my finances and know full well I cannot afford the rent on my own let alone all the utilities as well. I’m breaking even at the moment just paying half. Also the fact you have spoken with the landlord before speaking with either I or Gary on the fact that you and Berry feel there are these un-addressable issues really hurts. With that in mind I have already started looking for property I have found 2 locations I am looking at this evening one can have us in on the 1st the other is next Thursday. I wouldn’t want to be anymore of the apparent burden I place on you.

“Regarding the Security deposit, if you wish to leave the house for something closer to your work to save on fuel expenses, we will provide back the $800 in deposit that you paid for the house, which is only fair. “ – I looked over the copy of the lease last night after getting home. Since I will be moving out within the next 2 weeks at maximum most likely I also paid $250 per pet in pet deposits. You and Berry have made no payments to the landlord for either of your pets so in addition to the $800 security deposit I fronted I would also require the $500 pet deposit returned to me for my animals since you will still be having 2 in the residence so the landlord will not be returning that money to me.

“Either way this arrangement goes, the household duties and obligations do not change for any member of the household. No matter who leaves, we are still all in this together until we part ways on the living front.“ – Agreed I will Be out within the next 2 weeks most likely If all goes well and I like the properties I am viewing today I will be out either this weekend over the first or the following weekend. It depends on which property I prefer. I will adjust the rent check accordingly to only pay for the portion of time that I am there.